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The Bonding

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DATA: Commander, away team reporting in.

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Lieutenant Worf standing by.

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This is Riker. Go ahead, Lieutenant.

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WORF: The archaeologists have identified the markings in these caverns.

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This planet was apparently once home to a race known as the Koinonians.

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What do we know about them, Data?

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The Koinonians were an intelligent culture which became embroiled in a war that lasted for several generations.

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Our best evidence indicates they destroyed themselves.

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WORF: We have completed our survey of the third tunnel and will proceed into the ceremonial chamber.

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Affirmative. Enterprise out.

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Destroyed themselves, Data?

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According to historical records this will be the first opportunity for a Federation team...

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Captain, beam them up quickly!

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WORF: Captain, emergency beam-up!

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Enterprise, emergency. Severe injuries!

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Transporter Room?

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O'BRIEN: I've got them, Captain.

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Beam them straight to Sick Bay.

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Dr. Crusher, incoming wounded.

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Away team is on board, Captain.

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CRUSHER: One dead on arrival.

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PICARD: Space, the final frontier.

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These are the voyages of the Starship Enterprise.

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Its continuing mission--

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to explore strange new worlds

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to seek out new life and new civilizations

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to boldly go where no one has gone before.

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Captain's Log, Stardate 43198.7.

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The Enterprise remains in standard orbit

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while we investigate the tragedy

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which has struck the away team.

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Lieutenant Marla Aster, ship's archaeologist

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has been killed in what should have been a routine mission.

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Whatever the explanation

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it will not bring back a valued and trusted officer.

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Lieutenant?

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We had completed our investigation of the third tunnel.

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Our scans indicated no weapons or traps of any kind.

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Lieutenant Aster was three meters behind me.

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An explosive device went off.

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There was no warning.

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Lieutenant Aster bore the full brunt of the detonation.

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Lieutenant Aster is survived by a son, Jeremy, 12 years old.

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He's aboard the Enterprise, sir.

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And his father?

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He's also deceased.

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His only living relatives are an aunt and uncle residing on Earth.

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Where is he now?

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In class.

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I've alerted the teacher to expect us.

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WORF: Captain!

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I must accompany you.

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I commanded the away team.

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I appreciate your offer, Lieutenant.

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This is my responsibility.

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Picard to Bridge. RIKER: Yes, Captain.

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Assign Commander La Forge to lead another away team to the dig site.

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I want to know why this happened.

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Yes, Captain.

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I will be with Counselor Troi and young Jeremy Aster.

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I understand.

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Riker out.

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He had to do the same thing for me.

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Do you know Jeremy well?

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But I know what this is going to be like for him.

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It's part of life in Starfleet, Wesley.

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I know.

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They're very careful to prepare us for anything.

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But still...

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I know.

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How do you get used to it?

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To telling them?

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You hope you never do.

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I sense the weight of this duty on you, Captain.

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I really wonder...

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Halt.

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I've always believed that carrying children on a starship is a very questionable policy.

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Serving on a starship means accepting certain risks, certain dangers.

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Did Jeremy Aster make that choice?

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Death and loss are an integral part of life everywhere.

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Leaving him on Earth would not have protected him.

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No, but the Earth isn't likely to be ordered to the Neutral Zone or to repel a Romulan attack.

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It was my command which sent his mother to her death.

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She understood her mission and my duty.

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Will he?

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In time, and with help.

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Wesley Crusher does.

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He does, and so will Jeremy.

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Resume.

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Jeremy, I have some bad news.

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There's been an accident.

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Your mother... has died.

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How, sir?

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An explosive device at the mission site.

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She died instantly.

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I understand.

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Jeremy, I know your mother loved you very much.

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I'm told that your father is also dead.

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Yes, sir.

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He died five years ago from a Rushton infection.

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I'm all alone now, sir.

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Jeremy, on the Starship Enterprise no one is alone.

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No one.

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Excuse me, sir.

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Am I intruding?

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No. Sit down.

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How well did you know Lieutenant Aster?

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We spent some time together.

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Not very well.

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How well did you know her?

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Why do you ask?

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Well, you just asked me.

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But... why do you ask the question?

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Since her death, I have been asked several times to define how well I knew Lieutenant Aster.

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And I heard you ask Wesley on the Bridge how well he knew Jeremy.

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Does the question of familiarity have some bearing on death?

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Do you remember how we all felt when Tasha died?

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I do not sense the same feelings of absence that I associate with Lieutenant Yar although I cannot say precisely why.

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Just human nature, Data.

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Human nature, sir?

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We feel a loss more intensely when it's a friend.

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Hmm.

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But should not the feelings run just as deep regardless of who has died?

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Maybe they should, Data.

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Maybe if we felt any loss as keenly as we felt the death of one close to us human history would be a lot less bloody.

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La Forge to Riker.

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You're back, Geordi?

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Yes, sir, and we brought back a souvenir.

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LA FORGE: There are five more just like it all identical to the one that killed Lieutenant Aster.

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They employ a subspace proximity detonator.

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A normal tricorder would never detect it.

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How long would you say they've been there, Data?

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It comes from the time of the Koinonian wars, sir.

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RIKER: Did you find them all, Geordi?

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Yeah, but, uh...

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Well, it seemed like they were left there to be found.

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Left by whom?

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There are no indications of life on this planet.

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I don't know, Captain but it was pretty obvious that they'd been recently pulled out of the ground and defused.

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I have made my report to the Captain.

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I'm more interested in how you feel about what happened.

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I sense great anger.

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I cannot seek revenge against an enemy who was turned to dust centuries ago.

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Her death was senseless.

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The last victim of a forgotten war.

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Go on.

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There is nothing more to be said.

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A person died under your command.

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It may happen again.

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If you can't learn to release the anger and the guilt to talk about it...

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A leader must stand alone, as Captain Picard does.

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Captain Picard talks to me.

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Then, may I seek your counsel on my plan to make R'uustai with the boy.

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The bonding?

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It is my right.

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It's very generous, Worf, but he's not a Klingon child.

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He has different sensibilities.

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He is an orphan.

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I am an orphan.

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He will understand.

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Right now, there isn't much he can understand.

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He's holding all his feelings inside.

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Children often feel that they must be true to the memory of a lost parent.

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If you offer them affection too soon they can feel guilty returning that affection-- as if they're betraying the love of the parent.

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I only wish to honor his mother.

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I know.

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And I understand this means a great deal to you.

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But you must be prepared.

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He's very angry, too.

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But his anger is deep inside him.

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When he touches it, it will strike out in many directions, including yours.

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Be with him.

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Talk to him, but don't rush this.

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When he's ready, we'll know.

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JEREMY: Captain Patches, we have an alien ship in front of us.

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What shall we do, Captain?

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Oh, no, we've been hit, Captain.

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We're going down!

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MAN ( chuckling ): That was great.

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Now, uh, let's get a shot of Mom.

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What are you doing?

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I'll turn your lens into pottery shards.

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Go away. Go away.

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Go away!

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Over there, over there.

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( cat meows )

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Patches.

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Captain Patches... ( door chimes )

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...is coming in for a landing on the sofa.

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Oh, no! He's going to crash...

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( turns off device )

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Jeremy Aster?

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I am Lieutenant Worf.

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May I enter?

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You were in command of the away team.

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Yes.

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I was with Lieutenant Aster, your mother when she died.

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You're a Klingon, aren't you?

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Yes.

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We studied about Klingons in school.

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What did they teach you about us?

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You used to be our enemies.

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Did they also teach you that every Klingon hopes to die in the line of duty as your mother did?

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In my tradition, we do not grieve the loss of the body.

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We celebrate the releasing of the spirit.

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I understand death.

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They teach us all about it.

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Jeremy Aster, we may both understand it but we must bring meaning to your mother's death.

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Perhaps we can do it together.

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( door chimes )

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Come.

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Counselor.

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How is the boy?

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He's being very brave.

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Good.

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No, he has to get past brave.

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He's very angry and he has to learn how to express that anger before he can really say good-bye to his mother.

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How can we help?

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Well, I've asked Beverly if we might get Wesley to talk to Jeremy about his father's death.

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Oh.

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The one unusual element is Worf.

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Oh?

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In many ways, he's suffering as badly as the boy.

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He wishes to involve Jeremy in a Klingon ceremony called R'uustai-- the bonding.

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I know of that.

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Well, perhaps it will be helpful to both of them.

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I don't think Jeremy's ready to accept Worf right now.

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Perhaps later, but... it will have to be handled most delicately.

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As you always do.

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I break the unpleasant news and there my responsibility ends but you... you have to stay with them through the entire grieving process.

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We deal with our pain in many different ways but, over the years, I've discovered it's in joy that the uniqueness of each individual is revealed.

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If I can help a person back to a state of joy...

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Well, my role has its rewards.

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RIKER: Captain, we're picking up an energy field on the planet's surface.

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Location?

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Two kilometers north of the away team's beam-down point.

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Indeed?

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Full scan.

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DATA: Inconclusive, Captain.

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Sir, I'm sensing a presence on the planet.

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Very vague.

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Life-form? I can't be sure.

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The emotions of the crew are particularly strong right now.

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It's difficult to filter them out.

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Data, scan analysis on main viewer.

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Hi.

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Hi.

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Troi stopped by a little while ago.

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She was wondering if you might be willing to talk to Jeremy Aster at some point.

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Me?

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What for?

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About your dad.

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What am I going to tell him?

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It would help him to talk to somebody who's been through this.

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We had each other, Wes.

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He doesn't have anyone to lean on right now and he might be more comfortable talking to someone who's not that much older than he is.

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Okay, I'll think about it.

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Okay.

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Do you ever think about him, Mom?

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Your father?

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Sure, I do.

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Sometimes, I can't even remember what his face looks like.

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It scares me.

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It happens to all of us, Wes.

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Sometimes...

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I can't get his face out of my mind.

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Today... today, it's like...

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I can see it all as clearly as if it were yesterday.

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I can remember the way Dad looked when he hugged me good-bye.

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Captain Picard's eyes when he came to tell us...

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Data, run comparison of known phenomena.

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The pattern has no exact match in Federation records, sir.

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Is it alive?

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A possibility.

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LA FORGE: Captain, I'm getting an unusual magnetic flux reading from the anti-matter containment pods.

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My god.

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JEREMY: Wait a minute, wait a minute.

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Okay, you got ten seconds more, Mom.

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No peeking.

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Come on, Patches, in here.

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Shh.

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Okay, Mom, we're ready.

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ASTER: Jeremy, I'm getting closer.

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Jeremy?

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I'm going to find you.

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You must be in here somewhere.

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Jeremy?

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Mom?!

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All systems are functioning normally.

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Still, there's this fluctuation in the containment field.

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I can't account for it.

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Data, is this possibly related to the energy fields on the planet?

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There is a beam of highly charged particles emanating from the planet, sir but I cannot pinpoint the location yet.

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Captain, there's a presence on the Enterprise.

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An alien presence?

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DATA: No intruder noted by the sensors, sir.

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There is a presence.

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Security, all decks, yellow alert.

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Possible intruder.

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They said you were dead.

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There was a mistake.

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It's okay.

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But there was an explosion.

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You were hurt.

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I'm fine.

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You mustn't think anymore about this.

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The important thing is

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I'm never going to leave you again.

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I think somebody needs a hug.

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We have to go now.

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Where?

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To the planet.

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That's where we're going to live now.

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We're not going to stay on the Enterprise anymore?

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No, we're going to live in a home.

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Just like we used to on Earth.

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You'll see.

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I promise.

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( door chimes )

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Lieutenant Worf, did they tell you?

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It was a mistake.

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She didn't die.

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She's alive.

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Jeremy, come here.

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Lieutenant Worf, it's all right.

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I'm here for the boy.

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Lieutenant Worf to Captain Picard.

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Go ahead.

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Lieutenant Aster is in her quarters.

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Repeat, Worf?

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Lieutenant Aster is here.

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In her quarters, with the boy.

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PICARD: Do not provoke her or interfere in any way until I arrive.

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Picard out.

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Number One, have security moving that way but tell them to keep their distance.

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You have the Bridge.

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Counselor.

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There is nothing to worry about.

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I'm going to take care of Jeremy and make him happy.

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It's time to go.

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Where are you taking the child?

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To the planet.

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Come, Jeremy.

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Worf to Picard.

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They're leaving their quarters.

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Captain, I believe we're headed for Transporter Room 3.

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We're on our way.

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Chief O'Brien.

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Jeremy and I are going down to the surface.

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Who are you?

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I'm Marla Aster.

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It's my mother, Captain.

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She's alive.

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What do you want?

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To take my child down to the planet.

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I cannot permit that.

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The boy is my responsibility.

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I'm here to care for him.

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He needs me.

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Why do you resist?

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Because I don't know who or what you are.

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Can't you see who it is, Captain?

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Jeremy, she appears to be your mother, but she is not.

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What do you mean?

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You're confusing the boy.

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Hey!

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Wait, stop, no!

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No, wait, stop!

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Mom!

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Mom? Mom!

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Jeremy. Wait a minute!

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Come on. Would you just let...

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Jeremy... Let go of me!

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She was right there!

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What did you do to her?

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Jeremy, I don't know what that was but it was not your mother.

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You saw her.

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She was here.

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Your mother's dead.

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But I touched her.

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She was real.

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Why would your real mother want you to go down to the planet?

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There's nothing there but dust and rocks.

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( cat meows )

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It's my house.

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It's my house on Earth.

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Exactly the way it was.

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Remember, Jeremy?

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How did you do it?

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Does it matter?

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Yes, it matters.

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I am trying to understand your resistance.

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You spoke of rocks and dust on the planet.

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I decided to show you what awaits us there.

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Why would you create this fantasy?

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It's his home.

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And it makes you happy, doesn't it?

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But it's not real.

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Isn't it?

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Jeremy... isn't that really Patches?

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( meows )

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He knows me.

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It's him.

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It's real.

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It's all real.

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TROI: No, it's not.

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Could your real mother just make all this appear?

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You must not stay here.

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Come with me.

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( Patches purring )

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I can't.

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Is the boy in any danger?

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TROI: I don't think so.

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She seems to want to help him.

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Help him?

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By easing his pain.

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She's very confused by our resistance, Captain.

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Troi, would it be wise to remove Jeremy from his cabin?

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He doesn't want to leave.

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I would not recommend taking him by force.

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She offers him everything.

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All we can offer is the cold reality of his mother's death.

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CRUSHER: What would you choose?

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If somebody came along and offered to give you back your mother, father, or husband would any of us say "no" so easily?

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Counselor, stay with them in Jeremy's quarters.

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We'll try and put an end to this from here.

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Understood.

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( both laughing )

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Data, can you determine for certain that the energy source from the planet is powering this creation?

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The beam from the planet is clearly tapping into the ship's anti-matter, Captain.

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I'd say they're running that manifestation off our own energy.

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So there are limits to her power.

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She needs the transporter to get the boy back.

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So, how do we cut the puppet's strings?

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Increasing the shield's harmonics to match our own anti-matter containment fields will probably sever the beam.

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Proceed.

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Deanna, stand by.

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Standing by.

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Jeremy, it's time for this to end.

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It's not real and it's over now.

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ASTER: Jeremy, I'm not going to leave you ever again.

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I won't trick you or lie to you.

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ASTER: We'll be happy together, Jeremy as soon...

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No.

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Anti-matter containment pods reading nominal.

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The shield has severed the beam, sir.

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( console beeping )

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Captain.

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The energy field.

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Mr. Crusher take us out of here.

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( alarm wailing )

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Alien intruder, Transporter Room 3.

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Security alert.

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Alien...

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Security to Transporter Room 3.

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Commander La Forge, Mr. Worf, come with me.

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Number One, you have the Bridge.

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( both yell )

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Come, Jeremy.

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We will not let them separate us again.

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We're going home.

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TROI: Captain, she's back and she's trying to take Jeremy off the ship again.

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Acknowledged.

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Engineering, this is La Forge.

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Shut down power to all transporters.

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I'm on my way.

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Aye, aye, sir.

00:32:49

Lieutenant Worf, to Transporter Room 3.

00:32:55

Bridge, seal off Deck Eight, Corridors "A" and "B."

00:32:59

Engaging force fields, Captain.

00:33:01

Transporters down.

00:33:19

Energy force has left Transporter Room 3.

00:33:21

Security alert, all decks.

00:33:23

La Forge, the intruder may try to reinstate transporter power.

00:33:27

Understood, Commander.

00:33:54

Bridge, release security force field 8-B.

00:34:03

Hello, Jeremy.

00:34:07

How are you?

00:34:10

Are you frightened?

00:34:11

No.

00:34:15

Well, a little, sir.

00:34:17

Of course.

00:34:19

These are frightening things that are happening but we won't let anyone harm you.

00:34:25

Counselor why don't you take the boy to my quarters?

00:34:28

No.

00:34:42

It's looking over everything, Commander... going to school.

00:34:49

Let's just hope it doesn't blow us to kingdom come while it's figuring out how to blow us to kingdom come.

00:34:59

( beeping )

00:35:01

Power's back in Transporter Room 3.

00:35:04

Bypassing to manual override.

00:35:06

Shutting it down.

00:35:09

WORF: Transporter is down again.

00:35:11

Keep it down, Geordi, for as long as you can.

00:35:13

Understood, Commander.

00:35:21

It is only a matter of time, Captain before we can power the transporters ourselves.

00:35:27

We?

00:35:28

For whom else do you speak?

00:35:37

The accident on the surface was caused by a remnant of an ancient and tragic era.

00:35:44

Two species once shared this world-- one of energy and one of matter.

00:35:53

The physical beings you call the Koinonians destroyed themselves in unending, bitter wars.

00:35:59

The surviving life-forms on this planet will not tolerate any further suffering as a result of that dishonorable past.

00:36:07

So, they have made this possible.

00:36:11

They have made me possible.

00:36:14

I appreciate your motives... but his mother is dead.

00:36:22

He must learn to live with that.

00:36:23

I will be every bit his mother.

00:36:26

But not his mother.

00:36:34

Picard to Lieutenant Worf.

00:36:36

Go ahead, Captain.

00:36:38

Will you escort Ensign Crusher to the Aster quarters?

00:36:42

Yes, sir.

00:36:43

Picard out.

00:36:44

Your philosophy is curious, Captain.

00:36:47

What is so noble about sorrow?

00:36:50

I can provide him an existence where he will feel no pain no anguish.

00:36:57

It is at the heart of our nature to feel pain and joy.

00:37:03

It is an essential part of what makes us what we are.

00:37:09

He is alone now in your world.

00:37:12

A child... alone.

00:37:16

How can you know he won't be happier with me?

00:37:20

For a brief moment in time, he surely would be.

00:37:24

Any of us in his place would be.

00:37:27

What would Jeremy do for friends in your world?

00:37:31

He will have any friends he needs.

00:37:33

And will you provide for his education, his health?

00:37:37

His growth?

00:37:39

A career? A wife?

00:37:45

PICARD: Yes, it's quite an undertaking you're proposing, isn't it?

00:37:50

It is our duty to make him happy again.

00:37:53

Do you honestly believe he would be happy in... this total fiction which you wish to create?

00:38:02

What reason would he have to live?

00:38:05

What you're offering him is a memory.

00:38:08

Something to cherish, not to live in.

00:38:11

It is part of our life cycle that we accept the death of those we love.

00:38:16

Jeremy must come to terms with his grief.

00:38:18

He must not cover it or hide away from it.

00:38:22

You see, we are mortal.

00:38:23

Our time in this universe is finite.

00:38:27

That is one of the truths that all humans must learn.

00:38:38

Acting Ensign Crusher reporting as ordered, sir.

00:38:40

Yes, come in, Wesley.

00:38:42

Please stay, Lieutenant.

00:38:48

Jeremy...

00:38:50

Wesley's father died on a Starfleet mission when he was younger than you are.

00:39:01

TROI: Wes... your mother told me you were finding it difficult to talk to Jeremy.

00:39:06

Why is that?

00:39:08

I don't know.

00:39:12

I just don't want to think about it anymore.

00:39:15

All this has reminded me so much of that day.

00:39:19

The day I told you your father had been killed.

00:39:22

As I recall, Wesley, you took it very well.

00:39:26

WESLEY: My parents had told me about the dangers of Starfleet missions.

00:39:30

I knew it could happen.

00:39:31

So you were prepared.

00:39:33

No, I wasn't prepared at all.

00:39:36

How can anyone be prepared to hear that a parent is never coming home again?

00:39:43

I tried to be what everyone expected of me-- brave and mature.

00:39:49

Wesley, are you saying that you didn't want anybody to see what you were really feeling?

00:39:58

Well, what were you really feeling?

00:40:00

Like somebody had kicked me in the head.

00:40:04

Somebody?

00:40:07

Go on.

00:40:09

You've wanted to tell him for a long time.

00:40:13

I was angry... at you.

00:40:18

Why angry?

00:40:19

Why were you angry at me, Wesley?

00:40:22

Were you angry at me because I was the one who had told you your father was dead?

00:40:27

No.

00:40:29

Then why?

00:40:31

Because you led the mission.

00:40:34

You came home and my father didn't.

00:40:40

How long were you angry with the Captain, Wes?

00:40:43

For a long time but not anymore, sir.

00:40:50

Not even a little.

00:40:54

So, Jeremy... you must be very angry at Lieutenant Worf.

00:41:01

He was in charge of your mother's mission just as Captain Picard was in command when Wesley's father was killed.

00:41:08

Isn't that right?

00:41:11

Worf came back.

00:41:14

Your mother didn't.

00:41:17

Why?

00:41:18

Why weren't you the one who died?

00:41:20

Why did it have to be her?

00:41:23

He can't answer that.

00:41:25

None of us can.

00:41:28

Lieutenant Worf also lost his parents.

00:41:32

WORF: They were killed in battle when I was six.

00:41:35

When I was alone, humans helped me.

00:41:41

Let me help you.

00:41:43

The Marla Aster I knew and honored is not in this room nor does she await you on the planet.

00:41:51

She now only lives here... and here.

00:42:05

Join me in the R'uustai, the bonding.

00:42:08

You will become part of my family now and for all time.

00:42:13

We will be brothers.

00:43:54

SoS jIH batlh SoH.

00:44:00

What does that mean?

00:44:04

It honors the memory of our mothers.

00:44:08

We have bonded and our families are stronger.

00:44:14

SoS jIH batlh SoH.